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How to deal with Negativity

That which causes great problems to the seeker, and can be in the form of 'dead Souls', which can be seen in the sky as 7 loops. If these dead souls were, in their lives, attached to material things… they hang around, attempting to express their desires within the Seeker. Best way to get rid of these troublesome souls is complete detachment (950625); The negative forces are very strong, and are working at you all the time (870408); Even not to be collective, itself is a negativity (890617.1)

There are so many evil forces which are all the time trying to attack collectivity… first they will attack the leaders… then they have their sly methods… of going around and talking something here and there… in the ears… to create some sort of a politics. All such people will be thrown out of Sahaja Yoga… as there is a centrifugal and a centripetal force… both acting equal and opposite. Anybody who goes against collectivity… who sticks to their bhoots… to their negativity… will have to get out of Sahaja Yoga (860823)

Sleeping Off

I have already given you a very long lecture or speech as you call it… some reactions were very good, and some could absorb it very well… but some, they said, were sleeping. Now these things happen because of negativity… and you have to fight your negativity… because negativity is a thing that asks questions - and when I am talking, I am telling the truth… the Absolute Truth - but, it asks questions… and it reflects. When it starts reflecting, nothing goes in the head… because, you are left with the 'past' sentence… and the 'present', you are not with it. So the whole thing boils down to something like an escape… and you sleep off. Now I tried my level best to put you onto your conscious mind… because you have to be conscious… you have to be alert. Unless and until you are conscious, you cannot ascend… any abnormal person cannot ascend… you have to normalise yourself (860504)

Those who were dozing out should know that they are left sided. Those who went off to sleep… who were struggling at that time… may not have understood. It's a very difficult and a subtle subject… but those who have been like that should look after themselves… should find out. One thing they can do is to put a candle near their left Swadisthan, a little far… and put one candle before the photograph… and put left hand towards the photograph, and right hand on Mother Earth… it works… and the candle at the back should be kept little far away because it makes sound, it goes this way, and that way… it burns. Those who have been taking drugs, not LSD, but other drugs, the drowsy people who feel sleepy, whose brains are destroyed by drugs… all those people can benefit a lot by this… do it every day (860504)

Absorption

Sahaja Yoga is not just to pass energy through you - you have to absorb… to assimilate it and transform yourselves. You have to transform completely within yourselves (800127.2); Absorbing means when one's faith starts encompassing what I say… absorbing… not criticising… not repelling back… but absorbing it. Absorption is the only way to grow… and what is the mouth of Absorption… is Nirvichara… when you do not think about it; Absorption is only possible when you have faith… and the whole thing goes into you… you just go on sucking it like a child (800518); How to suck… just become thoughtless… it will go in… try to become thoughtless, and you'll imbibe. The thoughts are coming from ego… just tell them 'be humble'… and they'll disappear (800907)

So many of you had abnormalities which were brought out and thrown away… and many have been cleansed… but now, if there are some still lingering in you, you must work it out… you cannot go on justifying. Normally, a negative person attracts a negative personality… so if you have such a negativity of any kind within you, you should never sit next to a negative person… never go near such a person… keep away… but stick onto a positive person (860504)

So those who have really felt 'one' with the lecture, without any questioning, should know that they are doing well… their reaction was good… they absorbed what I said… they took everything inside… but those who were questioning, reflecting, should know that they have ego… whilst those who were dozing out should know that they are left sided. Those who went off to sleep… who were struggling at that time… may not have understood. It's a very difficult and a subtle subject… but those who have been like that should look after themselves… should find out. One thing they can do is to put a candle near their left Swadisthan, a little far… and put one candle before the photograph… and put left hand towards the photograph, and right hand on Mother Earth… it works… and the candle at the back should be kept little far away because it makes sound, it goes this way, and that way… it burns. Those who have been taking drugs, not LSD, but other drugs, the drowsy people who feel sleepy, whose brains are destroyed by drugs… all those people can benefit a lot by this… do it every day (860504); I would say that this lecture must be listened to, again and again… and to be taken in… not to be questioned… not to be questioned… to be taken in… to be absorbed (860504)

Obstacles

If there are no events or mishaps, then you cannot see the surmounting quality of the Divine… if the surmounting quality of the Divine has to be seen, we have to see the obstructions (881211); If suddenly a negative force comes in to trouble you… so what… otherwise how will you know what you are. If there is no darkness, how will you know you are the light (961020)If there are no events or mishaps, then you cannot see the surmounting quality of the Divine… if the surmounting quality of the Divine has to be seen, we have to see the obstructions (881211); If suddenly a negative force comes in to trouble you… so what… otherwise how will you know what you are. If there is no darkness, how will you know you are the light (961020)

Immunity

We face so many problems, all kinds of problems, in all sorts of surroundings, and in this way we are able to develop immunity to these horribly negative people that are all around. If we were excluded from all this, we would not develop the immunity which we should have (791009.1); I will give you such tests and things, by which you will come in contact with them… see them… and get out of it - without any harm being done to you. It is necessary… you have to touch them, you have to go near them… I know you can. I give such tests only to people about whom I am sure that they will come out (801116)

London… has it's own problems like other places have their own, but are different. Bombay is like the roots, whereas Delhi is like the branches. London is like the fruits or the flowers, but is very vulnerable, because of it's position… and because so many problems, all kinds of problems are facing us… of developing immunity to all sorts of surroundings. If we were excluded from all this, we would not develop the immunity which we should have, because there are some horribly negative people here. So it is best to develop a group as a whole, and to develop good bonds amongst the group, and to go on enlarging that group as a whole - this is the best way to be protected - it is working out (791009.1); If suddenly a negative force comes in to trouble you… so what… otherwise how will you know what you are. If there is no darkness, how will you know you are the light (961020)

When we are doing work of some kind, and others do not appreciate it, or do not join in, or they maybe spoil it, then the normal thing is to react by going back into Tamoguna. We should regard work as a training for developing our immunity, and do it with detachment, and with enjoyment, and by so doing get into the Satwoguna in the centre (800517.2)

We should not hold on to our children in the presence of others, but should let them be with others; In India, parents give their children to sleep with their relatives, not with themselves. The psychology is that the child gets used to another man, or another woman… while they are innocent. So the relationship of innocence is developed, and nobody feels anything funny if somebody touches you, later on; Let the children be with other people… don't have fears… they will love you much more; Overprotected children are very dangerously placed, because they have no immunity for anything (850421)

Bhoots

The dead… people who have died, who hang around and cause problems (810829; 900811.1), and can cause lunacy (890806); Who exist around the churches, because of the dead bodies buried there (820711); The dead Souls who are still attached to something… maybe to children… to the house… to drinking habits… maybe to something nonsensical… that still hang around, and they are the one's who trouble us… who bother us too much. They can be in groups… they can be many… of different types… they could be with a very bad Subconscious activity… or could be with Supraconscious also; Now some difficulties that you face, which cannot be solved, could be coming from these dead Souls. So the best way to get rid of them is to develop a detached attitude towards life (950625)

There is a difference between a Baddha and a Bhoot… a Baddha… is an obstruction… which can prevent us from feeling the vibrations (790616), and if present, can be seen as doubled up loops in the cells, under the microscope (890725); A Baddha is a 'hindrance' and is always on an organ or a centre, and if it moves, does so in response to the Kundalini or to your fingers. Bhoots move arbitrarily, here and there, to left and to right, and are not controlled by the movement of your fingers. One moves arbitrarily… moves on it's own, whilst the other is in your control… you are taking it out yourself (800517.2) Baddhas can be burned off by the fire, by the flame, and are to be seen as the flickering of the flame (781005)… while bhoots are also burned with the candle… and may go pop, pop, pop - and that's why the candle has to be put (920209)

To remove a bhoot without getting it into yourself, firstly of course, put yourself into bandhan. Then there are different ways according to the different bhoots. When dealing with someone who is possessed, you should take an aggressive stance, take a higher position, go with great force on that person. There should be no compromise. Tell him to "Sit Down…!". Then ask questions to ascertain the nature of the problem (800517.2)

1. Guru Bhoots - After putting yourself in bandhan, ask if he has gone to any guru… find out which one. Ask if he still ‘believes’ in that guru. If he does, do not say 'sorry', but say 'we cannot help you, go away'. But if he says 'yes I have a problem, I am in trouble, I am possessed etc.', then you can continue, by asking the name of his guru, what is his mantra, how many years he has been with his guru etc.… then you will know what is the mantra to use. If it is a guru problem, then say the Adi Guru mantra for the Void. Tell him to say the mantra, or to ask the question of the Photo… the Kundalini will respond. Keep the Photo in front of your face like a mask - don't allow yourself to be exposed. If you know the name of the guru… you know the mantra to be used… like Narakasura Mardini, Mahishasura Mardini, or Sarva Asura Mardini. Then best is to give vibrated salt with water to drink. Tell him that it is very difficult, that it is one of the most horrible ones we have ever known, that it is going to take time, that it is necessary to work hard to get rid of it, but that it will be alright - and do not hurry it up… it will take time. These guru bhoots can be very dangerous (800517.2)

2. Another type is the one that makes a person blind, even though their eyes are open and normal to look at. The left Swadisthan will be catching. There are 2 types of blindness here - it could be a bhoot, or it could be diabetes, or it could be a combination of both. Ask if he has diabetes. If he does not have diabetes, then it is definitely a bhoot. To cure this, take a Photo of the Hands, and put a candle in front of that, and ask the person to see if he can see the light - you will be amazed, gradually he will be able to see the light, and then gradually he will see the Hand. The candle alone will not work, but if you can see the Hands with the light, then this is extremely good for the eyes. It is possible that when frightened, as when a house is on fire for example, that at that time a bhoot may jump in, causing the blindness - but eyes burned out by a fire cannot remain open, whereas the eyes in a blindness caused by a bhoot, can (800517.2)

Bhoots get up to all sorts of tricks. Even you might find a garland coming out of the Goddess (a statue - Ed), and you think 'Oh what a miracle' - but it is a bhoot (790530); If you feel attracted for any man… think that 'that man' has a bhoot, and I also have a bhoot… only the bhoots attract bhoots… it's as simple as that… it's only the bhoots that attract (810904)

If you start putting your eyes onto something and concentrating on it, your eyes might become mesmeric… means bhoots will start coming out of your eyes. First of all you catch bhoots in your eyes… they settle down there… and then they will be falling on other people as bhoots… it's a very very dangerous thing to go on looking at something continuously with concentration (860823)

It would be a good idea… to start using a little oil for the head… in the night… as Sahaja Yogis, you should… better use some nice coconut oil, and rub on your head nicely, in the night… and in the morning… after all it doesn’t show much… and comb your hair in a proper way. If your dresses… and your hair are… like bhoots… then the bhoots will take over, thinking… 'oh, this is a bhoot sitting down here… better take hold of that bhoot'… so dress up in a way… that you shouldn’t have hair on your forehead at all… keep it straight… make it nice… and have absolutely clean foreheads (860504)

Those who do not meditate will become superficial… they'll not achieve… they'll create problems… if they are right sided, they'll become Supraconscious, they'll become bhoots… if they are left sided, they'll be thrown out (850629); Sometimes our Mother shouts at us… just once She shouts - immediately all the bhoots run away (830113); We accept correction… because we want our ascent (871016)

Attractions

If you feel attracted for any man… think that that man has a bhoot, and I also have a bhoot… only the bhoots attract bhoots… it's as simple as that… it's only the bhoots attract (810904); Why to make your body that attractive to every man, spoiling his attention, and your attention… what is the need… the whole idea is wrong (780000)

Entities are being exchanged in flirtations, and result in wobbly eyes, and also are the cause of those 'attractions' that we cannot explain or understand (781218); In a very gross way, we see that people are attracted towards others through the body element. Any body attraction can enslave you, and cannot give you freedom. It will give you habits for your body enslavement, and will enslave you to your Guru. The other attractions are for food, greed, and lust - materialism at it's worst. Once you start getting used to it, you become enslaved… and not a Guru (860706)

Something Wrong

If there is a problem which you are facing all the time, then know that there is a problem with you, that there is something wrong with the instrument, and it has to be corrected. We have had experiences of things working out, of many miracles happening before our eyes - but still the attention has not settled down with these new experiences. Still the old experiences and identifications continue - the filth of that is still on your being. Change everything, become a fresh new person. You are blooming out as a flower, and then as a tree - assume your position as a Sahaja Yogi (830723.3)

In the light of the spirit you can see, how you are doing wrong. The Spirit is like a mirror, where you can see yourself clearly, and you start changing yourself. When you have your Spirit awakened, you can watch yourself… you can see for yourself, clearly, as soon as you become a developed or evolved Sahaja Yogi… and that's one point one should see… if it has happened to you. If you can see something wrong with you… if you can find out what sort of defects you have… if you can detach yourself from those defects, and if you can understand that all these attachments and defects and habits are pulling you down - then only you can leave them… but that only happens when you have this mirror of your Self shining through (980712)

In these modern times you must know that all these evil things are also lingering in your heads little bit, here and there. So the Sahaja Yogis which are today here, have to realise that all these things are surrounding us… and these evil forces are also there. There are some within us… some are without… so it looks to be a very difficult task… but it's not… because one condition, if you can understand… is that you have to recognise me. I know, I'm Mahamaya… I'm really very clever at it… but I'm truthful… but still I'm Mahamaya… so to recognise me what should we do… if we recognise, then you are protected. And the cleansing is the simplest thing in Sahaja Yoga… is to be collective. If you are not collective… then know that something wrong with you… if you are collective… if you are enjoying the collective, then you should know that you are clean… no blemish is there… you are absolutely alright (911013)

Now if you are not aware enough, not alert enough, then you must know that you need 'real' correction… you must assert yourself, work it out, tell your leader… 'there is something wrong with me and please correct me' (871230.1); If we feel sleepy or anything, then there's something wrong with us… if you feel sleepy, wash your face… do something… so try to be active… try to be projecting yourself… all the time (891203); Not to spend much time on the mirror… if you spend too much time on the mirror… then there's something wrong with you… I think personally that it's a kind of a possession maybe (970823.1); Lightning is one of those things… that understands everything. If someone's house is struck by lightning… there must be something wrong with him (880921)

Collectivity is the work of Adi Shakti only, because it exists at Sahastrara. If we cannot be collective, or enjoy collectivity, then there is something wrong with us. Avoid criticising each other (900923); We have to be in the collective… at the slightest provocation, people become non-collective… if they cannot have rapport with other Sahaja Yogis… cannot talk to other Sahaja Yogis… cannot live with other Sahaja Yogis… then there is something wrong with them… they must understand that there's something wrong with them, and nothing wrong with others. I know of a Sahaja Yogi who came and told me that… 'Mother they are very unkind to me… they are very suspicious of me… they do this and do that'… nothing of the kind… it was his own mind that was working like that, and giving him ideas against other Sahaja Yogis. So, never criticise your brothers and sisters… if you have to criticise, criticise yourself. Best is to criticise yourself, and see for yourself what's wrong with you that you cannot fit into the collective (860818)

If you think you have been very miserable, you have not been very comfortable, you have not been able to enjoy, then know that there is something wrong with you, and not with Sahaja Yoga (871230.1); In Sahaja Yoga collectivity, nobody is complaining about another person as such - but if they do, then they realise there is something wrong with them (980706); The sick mind that we get when we go on accepting, when someone says there is something wrong with somebody, who in fact may be quite normal, and we say yes it's true… and it goes into our mind, and makes our mind a sick mind… is extremely dangerous, not to others, but to ourselves (980321); If new people are not coming, maybe there is something wrong with you - we have to be smart people, and spartan. We have to be deep and impressive - change your lifestyles (890611)

Compromise

There's nothing to be frightened… of… anyone. Because someone is going to say some harsh words, that's why you don't want to do something - such compromising people. There is no compromise in Sahaja Yoga (830723.3); In Sahaja Yoga, we respect the leaders - though they may not be perfect. They must know how to correct others, because sometimes we need it, and we accept that, because we want our ascent. Leaders should be kind, compassionate and good, but not to compromise with nonsense and laziness; The first thing that we get into in Sahaja Yoga is laziness - do not compromise with laziness (871016)

There are all kinds of things that you have got from your past… and you must try to get out of it… otherwise you cannot rise high. A person who is not innocent, cannot worship Shri Ganesha… those who are not innocent, play 'games', try tricks, gossip, indulge in filth… he cuts them out. Innocence is a very sharp thing… it does not have any compromise… which you can see in the life of Christ. With his trunk, Ganesha throws people out… he sees for a while, and if people remain still half baked, they are thrown out of Sahaja Yoga. Innocence gives you complete sincerity, and Ganesha is the judge… and he is the one who throws you out on the periphery… like a tangent you get out of Sahaja Yoga… and then you go down and down and down… and you may develop horrible diseases of the Mooladhara chakra (840902); Half-baked… those who compromise with the Devil, and speak of God (820711)

Shiva tolerates a lot of nonsense, because he is fond of forgiving… and Vishnu tries to play, or to punish, or to kill… but Ganesh Tattwa has no compromise of any kind, and when Christ is going to come in the Ekadesha form… there will be no compromise, no Mataji, no crying, no argument, nothing… Shri Ganesha himself will throw people into Hell… so be careful on that (840902)

Kalki is devoid of any compassion. There are 11 Rudras, 11 destructive, destroying powers absolutely settled in him… which are guarding the beauty of Sahaja Yoga. Anybody who tries to play around with Sahaja Yoga is harmed very badly. Don't try to trouble anybody who is a Saintly person, a good person… nor to play tricks with the Divine… because Kalki is already on! Be careful about it because once this power comes on you, you will not know how to hide yourself. Not only to Sahaja Yogis, but this I am telling to the whole world today - be careful… don't take it easy, and do not compromise with nonsensical people - stick onto the 'Right'. The day is very near when Kalki is going to come. Be careful. Do not try to harm others, or take advantage of others, and do not show off your own powers, because once this destruction will start in your life, you won't know how to stop it (790928)

The Kundalini is the one that thinks… the one that understands… the one that loves you, and knows each and everything about you in this life and the life before. She is absolute dharma, absolute righteousness, absolute purity… the ideal-most personality that you could think of, which doesn't tolerate any nonsense, falsehood, or untruth. She's Nirmala… She's pure - purity personified. She doesn't accept any compromise… and She is within you… see how beautiful you are. She is not afraid of anyone… cannot be enticed, enchanted or tempted by anything… and She loves, but Her love is that pure… that nothing is higher for Her than Her own love. She never reconciles to anything, and She is the one who gives you your Self Realisation. So we have to find out methods of pleasing Her… what makes Her so unhappy… why doesn't She want to rise… we have to find out the means and methods (791111)

So it is essential that you take up Sahaja Yoga in the most dedicated manner, and give up all these things that make you compromise, and make you a horribly mixed up person. Only Sahaja Yoga is going to cleanse you, and make you an absolutely positive person. This is the only way (790928)

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